They’re going to get back to hating the gays publicly soon too/have already started. Just look at what they did around Pride Month and what the Supreme Court is up to. It’s a matter of time if we don’t push back hard against their transphobic shit now.
I would say there’s a large difference between a corporation actively removing accessibility options a community has come to rely on, and an open source community project that is building to have all the features needed to host everyone comfortably. We don’t need to criticize reddit in the context of its alternatives, because we can validly compare it to reddit in May.
Someone once told me, if you want to be a woman, well, chances are that you already are :) It can be scary to think about transitioning, because the world is scary. But being trans is beautiful! I hope you experiment with your gender and gender expression and find the perfect things for you. Best of luck!
Trans rights! Y’all deserve aggressive support!