I realized I might be trans about two months ago, and I told my cis wife who previously thought she was bi, but at that point, I thought she was straight the next day. We spent about a week talking about it on and off while she helped me figure myself out and eventually came to the conclusion that I am. There were another few tear filled days while she was forced to reconsider her sexuality. We have been married for 3 years and together for 10 and are extremely close and in love, but we weren’t sure if this would break us. She eventually decided she loves me regardless of if I’m a man or woman and has been helping me with how to girl since. Recently, she was talking to a friend of ours who is ace, and she realized she might be demi because she loves sex and life in general with me, who she has a deep connection with, but she was just there for the ride with anyone else she’s slept with. Our outlook is good, I’m into women, especially her, and she’s into me, so we’ll see where things go.

I’m in the exact same boat right now! My wife got me out of the apartment in women’s clothes for the first time a couple days ago, and when we bumped into someone she was in school with, she introduced me as her spouse and we had talked about using the word wife, and i thought I’d be fine with it, but I was shocked by how much it stung! Dysphoria is weird, and I keep saying meat was not meant to think lol

I am in a state of absolute shock. I can’t believe there are people who hate pointlessly in this world /s

I’ll take a look at that brand! Thanks!

The trick of wearing the front of the gaff lower than I expected seems to have done what I needed! I thought ordered a hipster gaff, but it appears I got something closer to a slingshot🤦‍♀️I was intending to return it if I didn’t like it after trying it on for a minute, but because of my hyperfixation, it’s been wedged up my ass for days, so I guess I have a really minimal gaff now!😅

I’m pretty sure I’m good on that front lol

I was this close 🤏 to going out to costco tonight tucked in my gaff and a pair of my wife’s bike shorts, but I was too nervous about a ball popping out and being rather obvious and chickened out

Done, done, and done, just not in that order

YAAAAAAY! Congrats!

I wanted to propose to my wife for maybe 3 years before I did, but finances were a big problem for us. Eventually, I just said fuck it and got the nicest ring I could afford and proposed the same day it arrived. If you both want to get married, the time is right. You probably won’t get a mystical sign from the universe that the time is come. Good luck! ❤️