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  • I think a good chunk of them are just confused by going to join-lemmy and not be given a sign up in their face. Sure, we know that about 5 seconds of reading comprehension skill would get them where they want to go, but the vast majority of users don’t have that. Look how many people will walk up to a cash register/till with a sign on it that says “credit card only” and then be confused that they don’t take cash. Most people don’t read anymore.


  • For me, it wasn’t trauma in the standard sense, but my mother was horrible with money. Like she took out against her retirement, spent it all, never saved a dime in her life. We grew up in poverty because of it. The kicker is that while we were tight for money, she was honestly just really bad with it. We could have done fine, she had a decent paying corporate job for most of my childhood, but she’s just buy things that nobody needs. “I found these random things at a garage sale, only $200!” “But we don’t need those at all, what are we going to do with them?” “I don’t know they just looked great!” She emptied her retirement to do a home improvement project that was 100% cosmetic. She constantly borrowed money from family, and she had my siblings and I call family to ask them to borrow money.

    So, I’m doing fairly well now, and it’s looking like I’ll have to carry her financial burden going forward. We’re talking probably thousands a month for her.

    None of that stopped her from starting to casually drop that she wants grandkids. None of this clicks for her. I think the (US) national average cost for a kid just passed 800 thousand. For each kid. I’m sure it goes down a bit, handmedowns and what not, but that’s also the average cost.

    Ffs, she knows I’ll need to already spend thousands a month just on her, and then has the audacity to be upset that I don’t want kids? It’s just. A lot. It’s annoying and it’s a lot.



  • Maybe, but I believe in Occam’s razer. The simplest solution is probably correct.

    The average user is incredibly lazy. Insanely lazy. Reddit has taught them that they should be just spoonfed content constantly with no assistance. People aren’t used to going out to find communities anymore. To them even these basic concepts are then “frustrating” and “complex”. It’s unfortunate, but that’s really how lazy they are.

    They can’t go to the search bar, type in television, and hit subscribe, it’s literally too much for them.




  • I know a lot of younger folks will be angry at this, but I personally think this is a good thing. Cell phones were taking off when I was just getting through high school and the difference was palpable socially. Immediately conversations stopped happening in person, people started cyber bullying, there was less actual in person communication.

    School is the only time in your life you will have friends in close proximity. I desperately miss the ability to go find my friends in the same building, to get off school and go hang out afterwards. Having friends as an adult is just hard, life gets busy, everyone moves away, you don’t have that daily thing that gets you together with them. You have work, but as soon as work is over the last thing you want to do is hang out with friends.

    So yeah, I’m all for it. Tiktok, social media, messaging will all be there for you after school is over for the day, but while you’re there you’re experiencing something you never will get to again. Maybe I don’t like the pouches, but I’m all for actualizing where you are