Yeah, I can see that now.

I thought she’s asking for food/goods donations rather than money

You’re right, and I suppose I should have answered that way, but for now I’m undiagnosed and unmedicated. However, being aware of the pitfalls I at least feel better equipped to understand and counteract some of my more detrimental idiosyncracies.

I think most of the time when the conversation comes up I don’t feel “qualified” to talk about it because a doctor hasn’t given me the ADHD Purity Seal of Approval, and in turn I feel a little bitter there seems to be this sort of “label that explains why you’ve struggled your whole life,” but I don’t get to have it because of a technicality.

I’ve heard that, too. Hell, practically everyone is saying it.

I tried to get tested, but when I took the initial questionnaire I felt like so many of my coping mechanisms were working that the questions didn’t really apply. So I don’t have ADHD, I’m just a lazy fuck, I guess.

I don’t order tea often, but we would also have to specify if we want it hot. I guess I always thought of the options as sweet/unsweet iced tea, or probably nothing because I’d be surprised if they have some earl grey back there.

Escape from Tarkov PvE.

It’s so much fun to not be head/eyes’d from fucking nowhere by a random PMC. The bots are a little dumb, but the risk/reward for bot PMCs and Bosses is still there, for sure.

I bounced off of PvP Tarkov for years just trying to play with my friends, and now I’m finally having fun with it!

So much for tolerance… in anonymous online forums? Schadenfreude for public figures is easy enough to come by in real life that it should be no surprise to see it shine through online

I bet Toto is proud

NSFW-wise, I feel like I do pretty good at sex. I have a lot of 5-star reviews, but they’re all from the same person, lol

Otherwise, as a dude with a big frame, being overweight just gives me a Dad bod rather than it making me self conscious, so that’s nice.

Lol, are you referencing KGs remarks in Australia, by chance…?

This one is especially baffling. It would take longer to get AI to make this than it would take to do by hand, let alone digitally.

I feel you, dude (lol). My kids call me dude like that, too, and I use it the same way. I often used to say, “Yeah, man,” as an affirmative, no matter who I was talking to, but I guess that fell out of daily use a while back.

I was trying to look at it from a father’s perspective; the kind of thing I might say in that situation if it really bothered me. And, I think it’s important to explain how we feel about things using that “when you say/do X, it makes me feel Y” formula to help keep things focused and non-accusatory.

But I thought it would be ridiculous to presume to tell a sovereign nation what it can do on its own soil, a la Bukele and Abrego Garcia.

Perhaps they were lying about that…!?

Had the same thought. Looks like a real picture, but I’m not Kate Upton so what the fuck do I know

D:

It’s a particularly bland style

God you fucking wish

If they take it down we’ll make it again.

You make an interesting point about intent, but I think the missing part is trust. If I trust a person’s intent, then their actions matter less in terms of a reason for feeling hurt. But, how many people does a typical person trust that way? Even so, after being confronted with the unintended consequences of their actions, they should realign their actions with their intent in the face of that new information.