I see a lot of commentary, especially on Lemmy and Reddit, about how awful children are and how wonderful adulthood without kids is. And if you don’t want them, more power to you.
On the other hand, many people are parents and love having children! I want to hear some of the positive stories. What about being a parent makes your life better? What’s your favorite thing about your kids?
I hope you don’t let anyones opinion dictate how you interact with your baby! Do what feels right :) the old ways of raising a child are often not focusing on what is best for the baby (and for you), studies have shown that a lot of body contact and bonding with your baby reduces stress and forms a deeper relationship with your baby.