• Swedneck
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    3 days ago

    to be honest i violently hate this rhetoric, it’s just harmful and makes you sound like an eremite who needs to convince themselves that being lonely is good.

    No, needing relationships is a fundamental part of being human, and if someone feels they specifically need a romantic relationship then you have no right to tell them they’re wrong.

    • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
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      3 days ago

      You are free to seek relationships of course.

      Once you learn to live without them. The key thing is to have no desires. Why? Because everything can, and will let you down.

      Entitlement is just a flaw that will bite you in the ass.

      If someone senses that you are needy and desperate, they will dump you anyway.

      Needing things you can’t provide yourself, is the basis of how exploitation works in the first place, and is why we are still ruled by psychopaths.