We say we are ace-spec (as in on the asexual spectrum). That does not mean we do not find things hot. We’re actually demisexual.
What we mean is that we do not find kink hot because of the taboo of it. We find it hot for other reasons.
Edit: Also, please try not to say what us ace folks are or are not, nor what we experience or don’t. We’re not a monolith and you’ll likely be incorrect :)
As the saying goes: If you’ve met one ace person, you’ve met one ace person.
i wonder what the overlap is between BSDM enjoyers and anarchists, because surely if you feel strongly about authority then that makes it even hotter
How do you figure?
Things tend to be hotter when it’s taboo, and if you dislike authority then submitting to someone is more taboo.
Hmmm, that’s not the way we think about/experience it. Interesting to know though, thanks!
well yeah you state that you’re ace, not finding things hot is kind of the definition of asexuality, so that is unsurprising
We say we are ace-spec (as in on the asexual spectrum). That does not mean we do not find things hot. We’re actually demisexual.
What we mean is that we do not find kink hot because of the taboo of it. We find it hot for other reasons.
Edit: Also, please try not to say what us ace folks are or are not, nor what we experience or don’t. We’re not a monolith and you’ll likely be incorrect :)
As the saying goes: If you’ve met one ace person, you’ve met one ace person.