• julianwgs
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    8 months ago

    Or make those secrets explicit. Tell them that you have a bank account on your name to which you only have access to and may be that you don‘t want to tell them how much money is in this account. Further tell them WHY you want that. Any reasonable partner would be fine with this.

    • glimse@lemmy.world
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      8 months ago

      That’s not a secret account, that’s just having separate bank accounts which is extremely normal