I’ve seen a few posts recently calling people out for using “they” when referring to someone with gendered or neo pronouns.

As a long time dumb guy I was under the impression that gender neutral pronouns were basically always acceptable and I’m now concerned that I have been unintentionally making people uncomfortable.

My current understanding based on context is that once someone has made their pronouns known, unless specifically included, ‘they’ is no longer acceptable. Thank you in advance for taking the time to help me out

  • HexBroke [any, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    10 months ago

    I think pronouns are fucking weird (imagine using different pronouns for ethnicity) but hexbear-agender

    Anyway it can cause dysphoria for some so if you’re responding to a post and their pronouns are right there… not much effort to avoid some potential negative feelings.

    • Erika3sis [she/her, xe/xem]@hexbear.net
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      10 months ago

      imagine using different pronouns for ethnicity

      Meanwhile in an alternate timeline, José Gaspar Rodríguez de Francia imposing a language reform to go with his intermarriage law: