While I don’t think every instance needs to host everything, I think the most popular instances being a bunch that don’t host NSFW and one that only hosts NSFW is an issue. I don’t blame instance admins, as NSFW content introduces additional difficulties, but it still doesn’t necessarily look the best.

I know the going advice is “choose a medium popularity instance” which I did, but it took me a while to find one that allowed NSFW but wasn’t NSFW-only.