While rebutting another post here on Lemmy, I ran into this. This says exactly what I want to say.

I am not a friend of Biden’s Administration. I think they drug their feet over a variety of things ranging from holding Trump and his goons accountable for January 6th through rulemaking on issues like OTC Birth Control and abortion rights, and yes, I think he’s too quick to please big business. But then I remember what the alternative is, and … well, disappointed in Biden or not, I’m voting for him. Because my wife is a Black bisexual goth woman, four strikes under Team Pepe’s tent. And I have my own strikes for marrying her as a White dude, and respecting her right to not have kids since she doesn’t want them is another strike against me. And I care about my Non-Christian, Gay, Transgender, and Minority friends, and will never willingly subject them to Team Pepe.

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    Biden may be better than Trump, but the system is fucked to make those the only two options. If he wins, after the election I’m going to actively criticize everything about the Democratic party I can so that we have a chance to get a progressive candidate in 2028. For now I’m giving him a pass so we don’t take another step towards fascism. Republicans are going to use absolutely everything they can to squeeze their orange dictator into office.

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      I mean I’m definitely more on the progressive side and voted for Biden last time and I’ve still never stopped being critical of him or any other Democrat I voted for. That’s how democracy thrives after all.

      I don’t want and will not settle for becoming like a Republican where I never question or criticize the person I voted for, even if it’s Bernie.

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      after the election I’m going to actively criticize everything about the Democratic party I can so that we have a chance to get a progressive candidate in 2028.

      That’s how it’s supposed to happen.

      You won’t get the option if the other side wins.

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        Well we’ve had that option for over three years and for over three years Biden has told us to go fuck ourselves. If that’s how the system is supposed to work then the system isn’t worth defending for me. I’ll leave that to the people who actually benefit from it.

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          I’ll leave that to the people who actually benefit from it.

          Was it better or worse when states couldn’t just outright ban abortion? Would you say women “benefited” from the previous policy?

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            Man, it sure would have been nice if the Democrats had actually eliminated the filibuster and legislated abortion rights after Roe v Wade, instead of just campaigning on the threat of a GOP majority overturning it somehow. Almost like they didn’t actually give a damn about trying to solve that one, and just wanted to look like they cared. They could have had this done and sorted in the first years of Clinton’s or Obama’s presidencies and chose not to. Let’s see how many decades they campaign on swearing that, this time, they’re totally going to do something to settle the matter, for real.

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              I wish it were that simple.

              Do you actually believe Dems even had the majority they needed to make it a law even when in power? Dems are not a monolith.

              During the first 2 years of Obama’s presidency they focused on the economic crisis and healthcare reform. The latter, if you recall, even got fucked up because of one guy costing us the public option.

              But none of this changes the fact that on this subject, we had something better before now.

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                Republicans can get their people in Congress to fall in line, but somehow Democrats always come out with “Gee, that rascally Lieberman/Manchin/Sinema, guess there’s nothing we can do” and don’t put any effective pressure on these people or get rid of them with someone who don’t turn out to just be colorblind Republicans that will sabotage the platform.

                Democrats have chances to take action to address these problems and keep tripping over themselves on the same stupid stuff, then try to shout down increasingly disaffected voters with “The other ones are worse than us, vote for us and we won’t drop the ball again!”

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                  I remember that sentiment being shared when Manchin was doing some stupid ass thing or another. EVERY time anyone asked those people what EXACTLY they suggested anyone do to him to force him to change, they had no real answer.

                  I just assume all Republicans have some dirty shit in their past that their party can lean on them with.

                  Now’s your chance. What could Biden or anyone else do to force Manchin to do what he wants?

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                    Gee, I don’t know, primary him with someone that actually delivers on stuff and doesn’t hold things hostage on a power trip and back the hell out of that candidate? Tell him that if he doesn’t get in line, they’ll actively block his future attempts at getting some pork barrel spending pushed through for WV? Literally anything besides throwing up their hands and saying “We’ve tried nothing and it didn’t work, guess that’s it. We just have to deal with this guy until he retires, I guess.” would have been a great start.

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            I’d invite you to zoom out a little bit.

            You know who wasn’t affected by the abortion ban? Anybody with enough money to move or travel. While they’ve got you distracted with what they’re giving you permission to do you’re letting them take away your ability to simply walk away.

            Far more people have been harmed by the suppression of wages than any specific policy you can think of and it crosses over race, gender and age. Procorporatism is at the root of what’s killing us and Democrats are right there with Republicans making it happen.

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              You know who wasn’t affected by the abortion ban? Anybody with enough money to move or travel.

              “I’ve got the means and time to travel hundreds of miles if I need an abortion and I’m not that bothered that many don’t.”

              Got it…

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                Whether or not the abortion ban affects me directly doesn’t change the fact: Everybody is affected by wage suppression.

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      This is a very fair approach. Stop Fascism now, then right after the vote is won, start pushing the party Left.

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        I will almost certainly be voting for Biden, but why on Earth do you think we can push the DNC to the left? “Stop fascism now, then right after the vote is won, start pushing the party Left” has been the calling action for progressives and leftists for decades and the US has gotten more right-wing with time.

        Why is this time any different? Is it finally time to realize that you cannot vote the DNC to the left at the scale required to make actual change?

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          With FPTP voting you literally don’t have a choice. Push for voting reforms first

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            We can’t even ditch the electoral college that regularly thumbs its nose at the popular vote, how do you think we’ll get ranked choice to become the federal norm in 4 years?

            Looking at the past 40ish years, no party has ever held the presidential office for two consecutive candidates (not terms, candidates), so we’re pretty much guaranteed a Republican president in 2028 even if Biden wins 2024. And even though Trump will be rotting in a prison (or grave) by then, the Republican candidate will be just as evil, if maybe more eloquent about it.

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            That’s not the question I asked, haha. Voting reform would be nice, of course, but that doesn’t mean it will happen. That’s pure idealism. Voting reform has been pushed for for decades, how do you plan on actually getting voting reform through? Waiting for candidates to magically appear in the DNC and not just third party, and vote for them?

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              If you don’t get voting reform through, you don’t have much leverage at all for much else.

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                I asked how you’re getting it through, are you just saying the answer is to wait for the DNC to get around to it? Because I really hope that isn’t what you’re saying.

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                  How are you getting anything else through? If you can push them to make any changes at all, this one should have top priority

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                    I don’t believe you can, which is why I support grassroots organizing. Strike funds, mutual aid, that kinda stuff. The state will not be reformed in a manner that gives workers a meaninful voice, only mild concessions, unless there is massive outside pressure.

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        This is what happened in 2020.

        The party refused to move left. I won’t be suckered into giving up my vote for a procorporate piece of shit again. If Biden wants my vote he’ll fucking work for it.

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          Then please go vote in primaries, midterms, and local elections. That’s how you get the party to move. People complain about their elected officials but only vote once every four years.

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            Yes we complain because there was no excuse to vote for Joe Biden in the 2020 primaries. There were much better options.

            The party has no interest in moving. Thus I have no interest in voting for their trash candidates.

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          Have you considered that leftists have simply done a poor job of working for moderates’ votes?

          This is a two way street. Progressives don’t get moderate votes for granted either, and I say that as a progressive. Perhaps part of the reason why progressives have struggled is because the loud minority would rather talk shit on everyone else instead trying to convince them.

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            Have you considered that leftists have simply done a poor job of working for moderates’ votes?

            Have you considered moderates and liberals have no interest in moving left and will continue to expect our votes while making no material compromises?

            This is a two way street. Progressives don’t get moderate votes for granted either, and I say that as a progressive. Perhaps part of the reason why progressives have struggled is because the loud minority would rather talk shit on everyone else instead trying to convince them.

            I’m fine with this if that’s what you want. Get Biden re-elected without us. If you fail take full responsibility.

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              Do you actually care about progressive causes, or do you just want to be right and win one over against the moderates and centrists, yell at them and feel good about yourself?

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                Lol are you worried we feel good about ourselves? Suicide rates are at record highs. Don’t you worry about us feeling good. We don’t.

                That doesn’t change facts though. Moderates, centerists, liberals or whatever else they want to call themselves are the majority of the party. Millions of them voted for Joe Biden in the 2020 primaries over the numerous better options. We are all in this position because of their decisions. They are responsible for what’s happening.

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      I agree that we need more than 3 choices, but I disagree with you on being more progressive. Biden has been the most progressive democrat that I could remember.