• space_comrade [he/him]@hexbear.net
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      11 months ago

      I dunno people keep saying porn makes you have weird expectations from sex but I’ve never once met a person that wants sex exactly like it is in porn.

      I mean I’m sure it happens but I don’t think it’s this epidemic people are making it out to be.

      Also don’t watch mainstream porn, go for the homemade stuff, it tends to be much more natural.

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        11 months ago

        I know what I like so I’m going with that and I try my best to learn what my partner likes. It’s definitely not ever the spiderman, upside down bullshit with my foot on her head or whatever absolutely bat-shit crazy stuff they do as if it were normal lol

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          11 months ago

          A number of porn positions are used solely for the purpose of exposing the genitalia to the camera, e.g. like the spiderman. Camera work is the only reason anyone would fuck like that, it’s horribly uncomfortable

    • Ben Hur Horse Race@lemm.ee
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      11 months ago

      thats crazy in my book. jerking off is just getting self satisfaction, no connection, no sensuality, I mean you’re alone with a screen.

      actual sex is amazing, and I’m not apeing what my phone screen shows, I’m really drawing it out and enjoying every little nuance. most of the porn I’ve watched has next to nothing to do with what decent sex is actually like

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          11 months ago

          I didn’t day I was doing anything boss, this is a meme, and you have no idea what excites me, but it’s not just pounding away as such. I’m not trying to argue with you, I just felt you were implying you know who I am and what I do when you really don’t.

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      11 months ago

      Why? Edging is a great way to build penetration stamina, take control of your climax and last longer.