• Kidplayer_666@lemm.ee
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    7 个月前

    Vaping would be a deal breaker for me. Besides being douchy, I just plain don’t like it, just how I hate smoking. Piercings I probably wouldn’t like outa taste, but someone who can think for themselves is a must otherwise I’d get bored quickly. Not being able to cook would be somewhat problematic as I can’t cook well either, soooo…

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      7 个月前

      The type of person that wants someone that can’t think for them selves…isn’t really that high on the mental flag pole of life.

      But the saying is code for a bunch of stuff, I really doubt that they mean they are searching for someone with severe brain damage and has trouble performing even the basic functions of life.

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        7 个月前

        Yeah that just means “someone who asks her husband permission to do most things that aren’t chores like it’s the handmaiden’s tale”