The fact I’ll die alone without ever feeling the love of a woman besides my mother and without a child saddens me. So, as kind of a consolation, I want to know… How does it feel? Being in love and being together, the sex part, just living together and all that…

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    Your true colours and immaturity show. You don’t want a relationship, you want to be debaucherous for your own self gratification. You’ll never get a girl while appearing to be such a letch. That doesn’t mean hide being a letch, but get a relationship for the right reason. Women deserve to be treated with respect, not as some object. And that, buddy, is why you are alone

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      This is so wildly inappropriate for what Op is struggling with it’s unreal.

      Whatever your parents did to you to make you think this “tough love” approach is right would be best unpacked with a therapist. Get help.

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        Good on you for standing up for yourself - and you’ve identified something very important, women are not all the same. Keep reminding yourself of that.