• TheDannysaur@lemmy.world
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      3 months ago

      ā€¦ What?

      Is this some weird ā€œvictim mentalityā€ thing?

      People love to use it because it got popular and grew to mean more than the original definition to the point where it just got generic to encompass a wide range of things. Itā€™s the same as cringe.

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          By this metric, one can argue that we currently ā€œmisuseā€ a lot of words in the English language, but the reality is language evolves. Think about how the definition of ā€œniceā€ has evolved from meaning ā€œignorant or stupidā€ in the 1300s to itā€™s current meaning.

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            3 months ago

            So gaslighting should change to what? Telling someone they are doing something that they feel they arenā€™t?

            Youā€™re nice.

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              Iā€™ve noticed this a lot the last 5-10 years. Nobody uses words wrong anymore itā€™s all ā€œlanguage evolvesā€ and ā€œlanguage is descriptive not prescriptive.ā€

              People are just using the word wrong.

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                Itā€™s just crappy education mixed with ā€œdonā€™t tell me what to doā€ mentality. A lot of it is probably social media, where a popular person starts using a word wrong and that quickly spreads and is often used assuming the listener knows about the inside joke.

                I was talking with someone IRL who was a very big Twitter and TikTok user. They are also (diagnosed) autistic. It was difficult to follow them because most of what they would say sounded almost meme-like, very accusatory, and rude. I would ask them not to talk to me like that and it was dismissed a ā€œobviously a jokeā€ or ā€œsarcasmā€ or ā€œdeadpan.ā€