• UlyssesT [he/him]@hexbear.netOP
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      It isn’t and never has been. Making decisions under pretense of no emotions is itself an emotional decision. There’s no escape and attempting to be emotionless is just selective blinders and contempt.

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          Contempt for emotion and a desire to LARP as a computer are both emotional impulses, as I constantly remind such Reddit-brains.

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          Seconded, as someone who’s struggling with depression that’s what it feels like. Not just “the big sad” but more like “the big nothing”.

          I would not wish “no emotions” on anyone, not even my worst enemy.

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      It’s not thought at all. It’s the experience of vicarious pain. It might even be the basis for our social tendencies. Best example I know of are neurological studies that suggest that witnessing footage of someone getting stabbed forces you to experience at least a tiny, compartmentalized version of the stabbing, even feeling it in the same spot. It’s probably one of the most fundamental parts of the human experience but I personally don’t understand it as something I do rationally, but in a good way, if that makes sense?