• unexposedhazard
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    The whole idea of “trauma” is that its involuntary. You dont have a rational choice, your brain makes the choice for you.

    If you have trauma of that level you either go with therapy or put your child up for adoption. Its not something you can solve with willpower.

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      Right and if you don’t do those things, and instead take it out on an innocent child I’m going to blame the fuck out of you.

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        I don’t mean to be even more dystopian, but doesn’t the biological father have to consent to adoption/get first rights to adopt?