Yeah I have a strict “You can’t bring death to my house” rule but often must compromise my ethical standards to be included in family gathering or some friends. It is vile, and I hate it, but also for all their flaws I love my parents and don’t want to get cut off from their lives.

I don’t have any vegan friends atm (not in meatspace anyway) as the ones I made didn’t stay :< but when you can host an all vegan bash it’s so much more relaxed. No looking away, cautious inspection, just loved ones and good food and good vibes.

I hope you have a great time and reconnect with some awesome people!