• Cethin@lemmy.zip
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      True. I meant that no one is going to mug you or take your things. Yeah, rape isn’t uncommon when people get into more private settings. Being on campus during the day is pretty safe.

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      I mean, my friends and I never raped or sexually harassed anyone in college. In fact, we looked out for everyone in our group (regardless of gender) whenever we went out drinking.

      Now there was that time somebody reached behind and started rubbing my penis in line at the keg… But the rubee was female… So, take that data point for what it’s worth.

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        1: Yes yes “not all men,” no shit, what’s next, White Lives Matter?

        2: You know what you did. What makes you so sure you know everything your friends did?

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          1. But that was op’s point, which i was supporting. Perhaps read the thread again.

          2. You can say that about anything. “How do you know your neighborhood is a nice place to live?!? What if your neighbor is a secret serial killer?!”.

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            Yes, now you get it! Your friends could be rapists, and, statistically speaking, if you have more than three it begins to approach certainty!

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              Accusations without evidence… That’s a great way to make a point that is taken seriously.

              /s in case you missed it