Hi all! Happy to find this community!
Just wondering if some might be willing to help with some confusion Iâve had.
I was talking to someone here (Masto actually) about the best forms of coffee, and espresso hadnât been mentioned. So I said, how about just espresso ⊠clearly the best form of coffee.
They responded with âI donât like dark roastsâ. And I said it sounds like you just havenât had good espresso and that you donât need to have use dark roasts with espresso, as it can be quite light, floral and fruity. They didnât seem to like what I said and didnât respond.
This person comes from Canada, and I come from Melbourne Aus. From what I know, we have different coffee culture from Canada, or at least used compared to the US. For instance, Iâd never really seen espresso be tightly bound with the âdark roastsâ.
Naturally, being a snob, my impression was that this person and their coffee culture donât know what good espresso can be, but I truly donât know whatâs going on over there.
Any insights?!
EDIT: This conversation was much more polite than this ⊠I was just trying to summarise it and the feeling I had that they didnât quite appreciate that I thought there was more to explore in espresso than what they knew.
Otherwise ⊠thanks to those who answered and more or less confirmed my suspicion that some think espresso must be made from dark-roasts but itâs not true and oneâs understanding is probably due to what theyâve been exposed to.
I mean, maybe I was the asshole. Maybe we were comfortable enough with each other to use language that when taken out of context sounds bad but was just banter in the moment? Some people are rather happy talking to each other the way I outlined the conversation!
Reality is that I was just trying to summarise the conversation and how it hit a dead end once I talked about how espresso doesnât need to use a dark-roast and maybe itâs just not a thing theyâve tried or thatâs done where they are. The language wasnât the point and it was much more polite than my âmockâ of the conversation.
I was just looking for any insights on coffee that I might not have and on variations in coffee culture and lingo around the world.
And while I appreciate feedback on the language, in general, I have to say going around and dunking on peopleâs language in conversations without context and without being open to the possibility that you donât really know what happened and why, is kind of an asshole move in itself. Itâs not hard to just say "Hmmm ⊠maybe they didnât like your language or attitude? On the coffee side though ⊠"