Nobody ever says this about mediocre white women, or any POC of any gender
Seems to me that these people want to date people of high social status/privilege in society - and due to mediocre white men’s complete lack of any highly positive qualities - by virtue of being “mediocre” - can more easily be stripped back to only being viewed as white and a man as the sole standing “positive qualities”, making them a more pure symbol of status/privilege
You’re probably fine. It’s a specific 'I bet thst guy has at least 3 funko pops" kinda vibe
You can’t judge a guy on looks alone. It’s hard to get a vibe just by looking at someone
Usually the fake faded retro star wars or marvel or Nintendo shirt gives it away. It’s usually advertised.