Recently I read through the comments on a post and someone suggested OP should „just read the room“.
I have been told this since I was young and it triggers me every time.
Being unaware of social dynamics in a situation is a thing a lot of autistic people I know struggle with. „Reading the room“ in my understanding means „becoming aware of the unspoken things in a situation“.
Collins dictionary says: If you say that someone reads the room, you mean that they understand their audience and adapt what they say to suit it.
I think, although not on purpose, saying this is massively ableist and making fun of someone for „not reading the room“ is harassment imo.
Feel free to give an opposing opinion as well. I would like to hear them.
I really don’t like that shitty comment people give. How bout YOU read ME and know you’re an idiot for saying that.
I don’t understand what you‘re trying to say. Would you mind elaborating?
I think the commenter meant that when they are told to “Read the room,” they would like to reply snarkily, “How bout YOU read ME, then you’ll know you are an idiot for saying that.”
Oh! Ok. Thanks for explaining. I didn’t get that. :)
Yes sorry that is what I meant!
No problem! I’m not great with sarcasm. :)