As I noted within my post #9955859@lemm.ee (alternate link), I found that thumbnail generation in Element is an enourmous privacy, and security vulnerability. Thumbnails are generated server-side, regardless of E2EE settings. What this means is that the URLs that one sends would be leaked out of your encrypted chats to the server.
Why not just host your own lemmy instance on a cheap vps and be satisfied you’re the only admin heh