Can anybody give me some examples or signs to tell if you have a good therapist or not?

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disabled@hexbear.netEnglish · 3 months ago

Asking here because search engines push a lot of AI slop sites that can give misleading information.

I want to know what the signs of a bad therapist are. Some red flags. I’ve heard horror stories about therapy so I just want to know what to look out for.

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3 months ago
I may see a therapist for the first time soon so I too would like to know

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