hey folks. here’s a new FAQ on the community, since the currently pinned thread is a bit haphazard and crammed now, and we’ve had more time to go over stuff.
What is Beehaw?
in summary, we’re a community that wants to cultivate a sense of real belonging to something, to foster meaningful conversations, and to ensure everyone feels valued and respected in a way that isn’t the case with other social media out there. we’ve thought and written a lot about this. if you’d like more than that summary, we strongly encourage you to read the following essays, which explain how this community is run, what we prioritize in running it, and why we’ve designed it this way generally:
you can also read more on our Docs website
This sounds very cool! How do I join?
you don’t need to write a whole essay, however: please answer the question fully, and try to engage with at least some of the content above/on the sidebar before you register.
this is not personal, but we’ve grown a lot and are primarily interested in users who really care for the philosophy of our community. if you don’t answer the question fully, you will likely get denied or caught in registration limbo when we have a backlog of users.
How long should I expect to wait to be approved?
now that we have email working: anywhere from a few minutes to 48 hours. you should get notified if you’ve used an email to sign up either way. make sure to check your spam folder to be safe this may be an issue for some users. if you did not use an email to sign up, try logging in after about 24 hours, and then again after 48 hours.
if we receive an influx of users you may get caught in registration limbo by failing to answer the questions, and it may take longer to get back to you than the 48 hours listed here.
if you have issues with anything, please report them in the following thread!
I’m in! How can I keep Beehaw running, or otherwise contribute?
our instance is 100% user-funded. you can one-time donate or become a monthly donor here. you can donate anonymously both ways. as far as we’re aware cryptocurrency is accepted by OpenCollective, it’s just more laborious and you’ll probably have to contact them to clear it.
if you have volunteer labor or advice you’re willing to give us on how to keep the site running smoothly, we also generally appreciate that. our Matrix and Discord communities are the best way to offer that stuff to us.
How do I help keep the community running smoothly?
be considerate! think about the things you say and how you want to say them; be kind and charitable; don’t assume the worst of people; but above all: Be(e) nice!
it might seem trite, but genuinely we’ve found there is no better distillation of what we want to accomplish here than that ethos. if something makes you feel like that ethos is being violated, err on the side of caution and report it (on desktop it’s the flag button in the three dot menu on any post). it can’t hurt. so far though we’ve found most people kind of know what we mean, and we’re hopeful you’ll be able to pick up on that too.
as for non-moderation ways you can keep things running: contribute to discussions! share stuff you find interesting! contribute your expertise and help out folks when they ask for it! it’s okay—and very understandable—to lurk based on the toxicity commonplace on other social media, but we really do try to make this space as welcoming as possible to everyone here and we hope you’ll find it a safer place to come out of your online shell.
What else should I know?
we always take feedback. while we can’t promise any changes, you can provide thoughts and comments on just about anything on the site in Beehaw Support, or on Discord or Matrix (where we maintain real-time chat). we try to get a sense of what the community wants and needs all the time, so we’ll frequently be asking for input from you to help inform our decisions.
downvotes are disabled on this instance and will probably always be. we find them unproductive. communities cannot be made by users on here. we do take feedback on what gets made and when to make communities, as a part of the above point. you can always find a running list of communities we have at this link, or under the Communities button on desktop.
we are all volunteers, and this is not a job for us. we would like to not have it be one, so we can just be members of the community with all of you. please help keep it that way!
in the very, very long term, we aspire to become a co-op or similar, as a part of fulfilling our ethos.
as with the last thread, feel free to sound off on other questions you have. i, other mods, and community members will try to get to them as able.
Happy to be here and enjoying the positive vibe
Thanks for approving me! I was looking for an art community on Lemmy as a replacement of Reddit and as far as I know, Beehaw has the biggest art community on Lemmy!
Very happy to be here (thanks for the approval)… l have been looking around and reading through and it looks very awesome and curated content. Very happy to be part of this community :)
Hi everyone. This is an interesting place. I like that good behaving is part of the community philosophy. I can also understand why the creating a community is not allowed. Overall I have the feeling this is a place of quality.
However, disabling the down vote button leaves me with an uncomfortable taste in the mouth. I understand why this is done. This is my first post here, so I will see myself how its going to work out and decide at later time if this is a good idea or not. At least down voting unpopular opinions is such a bad thing in other communities, which would be solved here. And it still is self regulating, where top or hot comments have the most likes and comments. While writing my own comment here, I start to like disabling the dislike button.
Oh and thank god there is a Preview mode (like Github). I just wish there would be a realtime preview mode on the side.
Guys, I love the intent here!
What’s the best way to help?
What’s the best way to help?
donations are probably best if you have the money (here) but failing that moral support is always appreciated
I really like the policy of no downvotes. Honestly, even on Reddit I think downvoting had long ceased to serve any useful purpose, and turned into a harmful tool. Anything that truly is bad content can just be reported instead.
I’m coming around to like the policy, too. I was skeptical for a while before joining, but I think I figured out why I had that skepticism.
I think I’m used to larger communities/platforms not having a reliable moderation, and I’ve seen dislikes and downvotes as a directly user controlled means for a place to self-police its content. That’s not to say I’d think moderation would act in bad faith; I’ve had occasional points when I found myself in a moderator role, and I’ve always had the impression that we were trying our best. It’s more that I’d think larger platforms like YouTube and busy communities lend its moderation force to being spread too thin and having to make judgements quickly and with less nuance. Downvotes definitely can, and have, been used in bad faith by users, but I think I felt like their intended use case made their issues a necessary evil.
I think Beehaw is actively striving to be different in that way. I don’t think that means I should say this place is invulnerable to something like Mod Decay or Apathy—I’d think something as potentially impactful like this warrants a degree of vigilance. But the vibe I get so far is encouraging. I think that if Beehaw’s moderation stays the course, I’ll continue to see the downvotes absence not just as a non-issue here, but a benefit to how we do things.
I think no downvotes for something like Beehaw is great. But for anything that tries to push “open” above “moderated”, downvoting is critical. Otherwise you get bad-faith contributors that are propped up.
Hi guys, new here, how does this: “communities cannot be made by users on here. we do take feedback on what gets made and when to make communities” work in practice? is there a space to request a thing be created? Like for example i like to talk about wrassling shows but there’s only a sports community.
On a semifrequent basis, we open up a thread to see what interest are present. We just had another round recently:
ah, thanks very much, that’s excellent!
Following.
Is there a wrasslin community? I can’t seem to find one
Absolutely didn’t mind the sign up process considering the idealogy of Beehaw at it’s core. It’s necessary to filter out, at the very least, the people who can’t even behave for one simple “Why I want to join” message.
I do wonder what the plan is for growth, though? I can’t imagine it’ll be feasible to screen every sign up in a future where Beehaw continues to grow so quickly.
Thanks for all you’re doing folks!
I do wonder what the plan is for growth, though? I can’t imagine it’ll be feasible to screen every sign up in a future where Beehaw continues to grow so quickly.
late to this but:
- we all sort of rotate in and out of approvals, so it’s been pretty feasible to this point;
- the tide has ebbed from its peak and other instances are really taking the pressure off of us, so we can definitely keep up better now;
- worst case, we can just ignore all applications (or shut them off, if there’s a toggle, not totally certain).
the big problem is actually the ones we don’t approve, which are stuck in limbo as noted. we have about 5,000 of those and counting to get back to and we’re working on how best to do that.
(we’re also discussing how to scale on the fediverse side of things, but that’s really preliminary)
I like how transparent y’all are about this stuff, definitely the breath of fresh air people have been looking for. Thanks for the answer!
Just wanted to take the opportunity to say that I actually kind of appreciate the sign-up process needing approval? I’m aware there’s no quick and easy way to prevent bots and bad actors from tarnishing otherwise comfy spaces, but even just having to apply kinda makes Beehaw feel a bit safer? c:
it’s a very good filter, yes–honestly now that the “denials didn’t previously get emails” issue is resolved rudimentarily on our end, we can probably handle up to a few hundred applications a day
Happy to be(e) here!
Hey thanks and glad to be here. It feels like a breath of fresh air after so long on Reddit.
Just have to start commenting again!
I am really happy that this space here exists and I can be here. I already created an account at another instance, but noticed that the people there are already trying to create a new Reddit, including the downsides. So having a more controlled instance focused on being nice to each other sounds really wonderful.
Thanks for having me! I’ll do my best to engage and not just lurk/read most of the time lol! There’s some great content so far and I’m liking the move from Reddit even with the learning curve. I’ll donate when I can and if I can help more, I’ll do my best to do so.
I just finished reading the piece on beehaw as a community and how you try to manage disagreements or things that are inappropriately said shortly after being approved today.
It really moved me and made me feel a sense of community already. I really hope the moderation strategy works out with the growth of the instance, because it seems like moderating at that level would get exhausting very quickly. Anyways, I’m glad to be here and excited to see what the future will bring :)
OK - just checking in - picked up on Beehaw from Lemmy a couple of days ago and what a breath of fresh air!
To that end I’ve just wiped and deleted my two accounts at the R place after ten and a bit years. It turned into a pile of toxic garbage - bots and trolls in all of the subs I was in.
Hopefully this will different.
