• Mac@mander.xyz
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      1 year ago

      Not sure if you’re serious but i will answer as if you were.

      A common attack against people with large trucks is that they have a large truck to compensate having a small penis. This implies having a small penis is bad/unacceptable. This is obvious body shaming but also contributes to toxic masculinity.
      Both of these are unacceptable.

      There are many alternative ways to talk shit without playing into these kinds of comments and TBH, the compensation comments have been used so much and are so obviously baseless that they don’t hit very hard, IMO.

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        1 year ago

        well, i didn’t actually say that, and i’m not responsible for others filling in the blanks with their own negative thoughts. as you can see, several others actually managed to conclude something different.

        don’t blame the Rorschach test because you see something you don’t like.

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            1 year ago

            that’s exactly what blaming me for something i didn’t say is

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              1 year ago

              It was implicit. If you can’t deal with being called out on your rhetoric, perhaps you shouldn’t use it.

              Body shaming is dumb and so is owning such a huge truck.

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                1 year ago

                you’re projecting your own insecurities onto me and making yourself angry over something you imagined. I a not to blame for things your imagination does.

                work out your problems with a professional, not by attacking random internet strangers.

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                  1 year ago

                  This is hilarious to read, my guy.

                  Listen, you said what you said. Own up to it and learn, or don’t and move on. But you really don’t have to sit there and dig yourself even more into the shit. You sound silly.

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                    1 year ago

                    What sounds silly is people insisting I said something other than I did when my comments are right there for anyone to see.

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                    1 year ago

                    There are the facts, whether you like it or not. And I am not responsible for what other people believe. 

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          1 year ago

          Blocked. User has nothing useful to contribute and will argue in bad faith when called out.