Flinch [he/him]

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Cake day: May 6th, 2022

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  • just wanna put this here, it was a reply I made to Yukiko in another thread, I deleted it to not do struggle-posting in another thread:

    it is very ironic, I typed up a reply to your last post in that thread, saying that I was hesitant to criticize the situation or even report the post in question for misgendering, out of fear of catching a stray ban because of it. I didn’t end up posting it because of that fear, and then you got banned. never felt that way on Hexbear before, of all places.

    it’s very fucked, for the longest time I always felt Hexbear was a place where I could come and speak my mind with comrades who are all generally on the same page as me. conversations can happen, behavior and choices could be criticized, and we could all grow as a group. I honestly no longer feel that way. I appreciate everything the mods/admins do on a day to day basis, it’s a thankless gig you volunteer for, and it’s fucked what you have to deal with sometimes. but the behavior in that previous thread felt simply disgusting.