Shaleesh [she/her, comrade/them]

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Cake day: June 20th, 2021

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  • That last bit has to be the wildest peice of HRT advice I’ve ever seen and I applaud you for providing it.

    Addendum: My initial reaction to the reccomendation to “go to a gym bro” was one of suprised mirth. However upon further reflection it is very sad the way many transmasc people must do just this in order to access lifesaving HRT. Its not funny and they deserve better.

    (The situation is more complicated than that apparently but Ive edited this comment enough times.)











  • discussion of sexual assault and survivorship

    So, first off, if a woman is opening up to you about her experience with SA it might be because she sees you as one of the girls, one of the gays, or both. Regardless, she sees you as someone worthy of some degree of trust. This reflects positively on you.

    You cant really directly counteract someone downplaying their experience with SA. However, affirming statements about how the survivor didnt deserve it and/or what happened was still horrible can be very powerful in moments like these. If you feel like you can be supportive of them, it would be a good idea to let the survivor know that you can be there for them when they need it. Opening up and coming to terms with surviving a sexual assault can be a long process.

    I have some experience with being on both sides of this, and the bottom line is that the best things you can do are to listen, care, and ask them what they need of you.