Sine Nomen

Maybe !womensstuff@piefed.blahaj.zone can help you. They regularly have threads discussing outfits. I’d guess lingerie would be accepted as well. And they are vigilant in shooing all men away.

Boring old sex club for me. And I was a little annoyed when the see-through curtain in front of the room didn’t prove to be the impenetrable barrier I imagined.

When we opened up our marriage I wasn’t as interested in meeting new people as she was. So she did her thing and I listened to the stories she told of her dates and also the stupid dudes that messaged her

That actually got me interested as well so I created an account on the same site without a picture and without telling her. So the first thing I did was message her, pretending to be some unknown dude. I got her hooked with just one short message. Felt good to know that I could still rizz her.

Of course I knew that all in all she would be more “successfull”. But we both had our ups and downs, had fun, broke hearts, got our hearts broken. Eventually she stopped dating and I kept going until I couldn’t go on.

In the end, I have slept with more women after marrying than before. Met many interesting people and learned a lot of stuff about myself.

But the most important thing about an open relationship is that it is open in communication. In that way we were open even before we started dating other people. And I think that is why it worked.

I’d often meet people on Fetlife. And bondage munches are a great first date. So if you count tightly wrapping someone in hempen rope as sexual I often went there on the first date.

I’m one of those guys who don’t like their own cum. Which is a shame, really. Because I super enjoy kissing her and eating her out but not when my cum is coming out of there. It’s a total turn off which I haven’t been able to shake off unfortunately.