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4 months agohow am i supposed to girlbuy new girlclothes if i keep having to girlpay girlbills 
good_girl [she/her, they/them]
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Cake day: August 15th, 2023
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It was a nice space and the mod was pretty chill for the most part, it’s pretty upsetting he got chased out and I hope he doesn’t let it get to him.
But it is what it is ig
wreckers going wild
blahaj drama going stupid rn
I’m out tho, I can’t do stupid Internet drama anymore so i left with a deez nuts joke
long live hexbear
She’s so girlypop she’s my everything I love her
I’ve had Juno for 41 hours but if anything happened to her i would elim everyone in the lobby including myself
doomer
Okay I’m ordering DIY powder to stock up, I dont think things are looking good.
Also gotta back up sites relevant to it.
Fr even Nevada explored the idea in the second part. I won’t spoil exactly how it goes down but the book even acknowledges that the “dangers” of pushing the idea someone might be trans are overblown. It’s not like there’s a point of no return, you don’t have to commit to keep taking HRT, detransitioning is always an option (even though a vast majority of detransitioners do so for reasons OTHER THAN A FALSE DIAGNOSIS).
There’s nowhere near this amount of pushback for other queer identities. It’s mainstream for “maybe you’re gay/bi/lesbian” to be a punchline. If one were to make the same joke but with transness it would not fly even with supposed allies. It’s so goddamn stupid.
38·4 months agoGot curious about what kind of comm this even is to try and organize a nato pixel thing and
What the fuck am i even looking at, I can’t tell if this is a bit or not, the user unironically posts in the comm
i can’t even be assed to look at the canvas but sure yeah i’m “attacking” a pixel monument to nato
sad(?)
Do you think you’d describe that feeling as queer loneliness?
You’re not worthless
There is happiness to be found in self discovery regardless of where you end up.
So real, I recently manipulated and girlbossed my spotify radio recommendations into giving me more queer folk punk I hadn’t heard before.
Oh wait it’s not…
I’m so disappointed in myself
spoiler
I may be weird but personally I saw the ending as sorta optimistic even before I heard about the theory that the pink opaque is just starting a new season (S06E01 or w/e).
The weight of suffocation by inaction is weighing down on Isabel/Owen enough that she finally externalizes it again for the first time since being told by Tera/Maddy about the Midnight Realm, screaming for help and yelling that she’s dying but nobody can hear her/relate. While it’s an incredibly isolating event it leads to her realizing that nobody else is going to help her so she has to help herself, she has to do something, she can’t just stagnate like she’s done for 40 years. I saw the scene in the bathroom as her finally confronting what Tera/Maddy said and seeing that, yeah, she was right. Owen’s body isn’t her body. What she felt before about her insides being ripped out and replaced was right.
I feel that the very last scene was written to be as open to interpretation as possible with the knowledge of what had just unfolded but I saw it as the start of Isabel’s new beginning/escape.
Personally I didn’t get the same emotional reaction to the movie that a lot of other people seemed to get, but that may be because of how I see myself and where I am in my own transition. However, I think that if this movie had come out before I started to transition I’d have a stronger reaction.
I can’t stress enough how much a wide toothed comb helped with keeping frizz somewhat manageable as another curly girly.
Checkout the curlyhair comm on reddit, they usually have good recs.
As for oil, as someone with high porosity 2B-2C sometimes 3A hair (leans closer to wavy), I had decent success with Jojoba oil as it’s very light and has similar properties to sebum. I also really like using Tsubaki Oil and though I’m not entirely sure it’s doing anything for my frizz, it leaves my hair incredibly soft.
Also i find tying my hair up in a bun overnight keeps it more manageable in the morning.
21·5 months agoAlso the libertyhub comm at a glance just seems like a shitty micro hexbear lmao
Pretty much. The head mod is still somehow “anti-tankie.” Cool enough guy but still has some liberal adjacent apprehensions.
When I saw the original post I had to check if OP was a 196 poster (they are) and I found this gem:
The brainworms are terminal I’m afraid.
more brainworms
They really love this image, they posted it multiple times in comments.
Whatever this person’s deal is to be this way, I hope their situation improves, because it’s kind of unsettling.
Actually you don’t have to tell doctors anything. Just keep getting him to do labs every few months until you’re happy with the numbers.
I want to do this but I have to rely on him to keep my prescription refills up. I definitely could do this if i switch to DIY though.
This doesn’t make any sense to me. Why would the injections be different if you did them in different place?
He said it was to make sure I’m using the correct technique for injection but my partner has been doing them for me and she’s had actual classes for injection techniques (?) so I dunno what his problem is.
considering it more and more each day
finally got around to having blood work done again to check my levels, I feel like they’re pretty low for my last dose to be 1 week ago.
Anyway I asked my endo to (officially) up my dosage frequency from once every two weeks to at least once a week, and I also asked him if we could up my dose (4mg).
He agreed to increase my frequency but not my dose.
I didn’t tell him i’d already switched to once a week but now I’m trying to convince him to up my dose as well, hopefully he agrees otherwise I’m going to have to awkwardly tell him I’d been doing once a week doses for the last 1.5 months.
edit: nevermind he responded quickly basically saying not for 3-4 weeks at least, and if my levels don’t improve i’ll have to go in to get shots instead of doing it at home (which i hate because I have to make time away from work).
ikea plushie
Reading through that it’s wild how quickly Ada goes to bat against hexbear but staunchly defends actual wreckers like mindtraveler who doesn’t even post on blahaj outside of the drama surrounding them.
She keeps bringing up the dunk tank but it reads like she’s actually just making things up at this point. The dunk tank explicitly has a rule now to not target small users with low engagement. And a rule to not specifically target other instance admins and mods.
Hell, looking through the first ten pages of the top posts in the last year
The posts involving lemmy users that aren’t explicitly disagreeing with our politics are:
10 anti-hexbear posters
2 posts saying ukranians dying is a good thing actually
1 both sides argument about nazis
1 person saying poor people can’t be on the internet
1 post about .world defedding with lemmygrad
1 post about misinformation regarding north/south korea
1 pseudo intellectual nerd crying about emojis
1 example of ableism from 196 mods
1 person disagreeing with a lemmy dev’s politics on a community dedicated to harassing lemmygrad posters.
1 loser coming up with their own definition of socialism
1 temporarily embarrassed millionaire saying bees don’t make money actually
of these there are 3 people who may be trans/from blahaj. Those three are someone who is anti-hexbear, someone who is anti-hexbear and thinks we don’t actually have trans users, and the 196 mod directing ableism towards one of our admins.
the posts that are explicitly lemmy posters disagreeing with our politics are:
1 pro nato poster
1 person crying about communists
1 person crying after being told to post hog
1 person just being anti-hexbear again but with politics
and 1 trans no steppy snake flag
Of these 5, only 1 is from a trans user/blahaj.
seeing ada react like this only strengthens my resolve to leave that place.