This is a tough one. On the one hand, fuck facebook.
On the other hand, interacting with facebook from your own instance is a more moral way to do it. If grandma gets access to a federated service could I message her again?
She’s not on insta just saying.
But facebook still has the power to defederate and thats the shitty thing about the fediverse in general. It’s not so much about freeing the user it’s more about building tribes and then walling yourself off from other tribes.
I don’t like giving facebook any data at all. If you have a popular instance and you federate with facebook you are basically giving them free data.
Instead of mass defederating I would suggest all instance instead send facebook garbage data. Absolute maliciously attack threads with fake information to ruin their data sets.
Don’t make it obvious at first just try to train their AI models to be retarded
I think generally it is more difficult to achieve a stable traditional family. Because the man has to make a lot more money. Like more than twice the average. Most men can’t do it. Most women cannot get a man who can do it. So everyone who knows they will never have a traditional family will get angry at the thought because they can’t have it. There is probably more to it than that but it’s all tangential.