He’s also incredibly smart in other ways. It’s just the bad parts that get more press. And he’s bound be wrong a bit considering the amount of things he wrote about.

It was a random thought, I thought of it as a portmanteau of keralam and lemmy.

How did you get mlmym to work? Does mlmym have some setting to default to some particular instance? Some reverse proxy? Or does lemmy allow for choosing some front end in some manner?

I didn’t see any documentation on the site.

This is amazing news.

I have only seen the instance on mlmym.org, not a lemmy instance, maybe an instance of the UI. Never seen this mentioned anywhere else.

Probably because a lot of people who are attracted to lemmy might have loved the freedom and anonymity that old reddit offered them back then and this interface reminds them of that. I for one have fond memories of how reddit was a decade ago and it’s been a while since I’ve seen a social network like that. Everything these days are so facebook like.

Hey, it’s not your fault.

If you are a guy, and you don’t look like Brad Pitt, online dating is depressing. If you happen to look like Brad Pitt, it can still be pretty hard.

That’s just how it is structured. People approach online dating looking for short term distractions. Try setting up a profile saying something like ‘I am looking for someone who is willing to put in the hardwork through all the arguments and the compromises and adjustments we will need to make a marriage work’ and see how much success you have.

You could be doing everything right and you still will end up getting matched with a lot of people who might not be as serious as you might be about it. That’s just how online dating works.

The sidebar could say KeraLEMM

I understand how multiple instances work and how I can subscribe to communities across the fediverse from any instance. I also read that it an instance goes offline, it’ll sync up with the other instances when it comes back online.

That got me thinking, it this thing works like that, can’t I run an instance on my laptop that’ll sync up with the rest of the fediverse every time I open it up.

So if a group of people ran their own in their own laptops, would it work, granted, people end up coming online at the same time

We need an askkerala too once there are more users.

It’d be good if there are serious communities that aren’t just about the memes. Because we’ve instagram and Facebook for memes. I hope this doesn’t become that.

We need a politics community, it is kerala after all.

So if me and a group of friends install lemmy instances on our pcs, and setup some form of dynamic dns like duckdns that will bind our ips to some hostname, then will all of them communicate with eachother and sync the posts as we come online?