• Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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    1 year ago

    They’re conditioned to and glorify negativity, is what it is. I get downvoted for the most innocuous shit when I post or comment in self-proclaimed “liberal” instances.

    I’ve been commenting frequently on y’alls posts since you federated. I’ve not received a single downvote here. Not one.

    They find even-keeledness and agreeability sinister. That says a lot.

    • Parsani [love/loves, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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      1 year ago

      I’ve not received a single downvote here. Not one.

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      …we, uh, disabled downvotes a long time ago… Don’t worry, downvotes are clearly expressed in words or images should that be needed lol. Welcome, though!

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          michael-laugh

          it basically forces people to explain why they disagree instead of bandwagoning like on places with downvotes

          or at the very least have to PIGPOOPBALLS a person, which gives them a chance to respond, unlike anonymous downvotes

        • motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.net
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          Yeah this was a struggle session we had a while back. Detractors say we disabled downvotes “because downvoting a trans person is transphobic”. What actually happened is that several of our more persistent trolls were rabid transphobes who were creating alts specifically to downvote everything that known trans users were posting. And this was among a large struggle around healthy debate norms on the site and how downvotes led to unhealthy incentives during longer comment chains. The stance is basically, “State your grievance or move on.” (And yes, pigpoopballs counts as a grievance, albeit a very intense one)

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            it was also that transphobes were expressing discontent through downvotes, including on extremely innocuous shit like the “I love my trans comrades” posts. by forcing them to speak, we got them into the open so they could all be purged. no one can respond to a silent “I disagree” button so it promotes toxicity. if you wanna express your disapproval, put it in words so the person making the original point has something to work with.

            I think lemmy as a whole should just get rid of downvotes.

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              That’s a really good point, and I’m impressed with your community for both coming to that conclusion and taking action.

              I’ve been for a while suggesting that votes should be publicly transparent, but I think the solution of just doing away with the downvotes works well.

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      I peek into their threads sometimes and it’s crazy, they just snarkily tear each other down for no reason, sometimes as a first means of communication. Feels so slimy and acidic in there, hardly any solidarity at all