How has it been when you go out at this stage? Also fwiw it can be hard to tell when or if or how much you pas, 'cause everyone’s perspective is all subjective and shit.
Which depends on a lot of stuff, like where you live, your race/ethnicity, height even… can’t act like that’s an irrational fear. You can only know if you try though, right? And you have your gf for support?
How has it been when you go out at this stage? Also fwiw it can be hard to tell when or if or how much you pas, 'cause everyone’s perspective is all subjective and shit.
Also your gf is probably right
I feel nervous like someone is gonna call me a slur or punch me or at the very least think bad things about me.
Which depends on a lot of stuff, like where you live, your race/ethnicity, height even… can’t act like that’s an irrational fear. You can only know if you try though, right? And you have your gf for support?
She lives in the UK
Fugg It would be good to be with somebody you know the first time you go out, I was with my gf at the time…
Uncritical support to this LDR though!!! LDRs are Worth It!!!
LDRs are cool, we were one ^^
I agree :> I feel like I’m such a weirdo and particular about who I like that if they happen to be an ocean away, so be it haha
Real
I lived in Ireland