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    4 months ago

    Fat and ugly remains fat and ugly

    Biology

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      4 months ago

      Be fat

      Be ugly

      Strong social connections

      Plenty of money

      Be nice and care

      Use power to make stuff happen

      Being actively involved in your own life and your community

      Can put people in their place

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      Why do women love me?

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      4 months ago

      lol I’m fat (and, I wouldn’t say ugly, but I’m pretty ugly if I forgo my hygiene, acne prevention, and grooming routine for a couple days) and I’ve been in a few relationships and am married to a beautiful woman half my weight, and we love one another very much.

      Fat doesn’t HELP, it certainly makes things more difficult. There are men/women who are immediately turned off by it. But dating and relationships are in many ways about personality and confidence. Personality you can improve on, and confidence you can fake, until both become natural to you.