No, this is a reasonable reaction.
Any balanced person would feel this way.This. No one should be called like this.
My step-dad would raise his hand and say “Teacher!” when they were in ear-shot.
Never got why my mom hated it. She’s more of an “Excuse Me!! Let me tell you my life story while you refill my water! No ice please!”-lady.
In Brasil, if you don’t call your waiter/waitress they are not coming to your table.
Same over here, but if you snap your fingers at me they’re getting broken off till you learn to use them properly
Same in all of Europe
I think it’s just the USA that’s… different
I was told explicitly not to yell “Fraulein, ich möchte mehr wasser bitte!” across the restaurant during my german class’ essen section.
Do you snap your fingers tho?
I don’t think so, but you may say “garçom” to get their attention.
Only when making a sassy comeback.
imo that’s how it should be
Meanwhile my autistic ass just sits for a long time until they look my way and I wave awkwardly hoping I didn’t do anything wrong
You snap your fingers, I snap your neck
I snap my fingers, I do my step. You can do it all by yoself.
