As I noted within my post #9955859@lemm.ee (alternate link), I found that thumbnail generation in Element is an enourmous privacy, and security vulnerability. Thumbnails are generated server-side, regardless of E2EE settings. What this means is that the URLs that one sends would be leaked out of your encrypted chats to the server.
Dang, that is a scenario that I hadn’t considered. I’m not sure that there’s anything that can be done about it.
Why not just host your own lemmy instance on a cheap vps and be satisfied you’re the only admin heh