When they’re nice to people they don’t have to be. There’s no benefit to doing it, they’re just doing it for the right reasons

Just being nice. I remember a couple of times seeing people give up their seat for people on a train and just instantly liking them.

When somebody matches my humour and general outlook on life, typical british style with a dose of self deprecation and sarcasm on otherwise serious topics.

If we’re going somewhere and you stop to give a homeless person cash/food. Just giving without ‘judging’ nor thinking about it twice. And people who try to ‘intellectually’ justify their lack of charitableness are just telling on themselves!

There’s virtues I admire. Like when people can do things that I can’t.

However, kindness is the one that make me like them the most though. Opening a door. Helping someone with dropped items. Showing a lost stranger the way.

Agreeableness. If I’m playing “yes, and…” with you having just met and I’m making the effort to connect and find common ground, I kind of expect some of it back without being sycophantic. Just be nice and you got me.