• PunnyName@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    If you wanna talk for an hour, sure.

    If you want to avoid a paper trail, absolutely not.

  • aaaa@piefed.world
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    3 days ago

    Funny… in my experience, the people who ask are the people who don’t have to. They are always welcome because they understand.

    • MinnesotaGoddam@lemmy.world
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      3 days ago

      i live near a hill. sometimes my phone rings, sometimes it doesn’t. sometimes it takes 6 hours for a text to arrive, sometimes immediately, sometimes it get lost in the packet routing tumble dryer.

  • astropenguin5@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    Tbh people not asking (particularly discord calls for some reason) bugs me. Like I need a second to get into the right headspace for it and I don’t like being surprised by a call

  • InvalidName2@lemmy.zip
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    3 days ago

    I mean, of course you call me, any time day or night. My phone won’t ring and I definitely won’t answer, but you do you and call call call all you want, sweetie! How’s your mama doing?

    • ByteOnBikes@discuss.online
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      2 days ago

      You get 10+ texts in a row?

      I usually respond in paragraph form and then as they’re typing a reply, I panic and ghost them for another day.

  • ulterno@programming.dev
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    3 days ago

    I ask to call even if the other side is one that never going to and will call with another no. after I save their no.