Well, for starters it was more a volonteer work for the local trans association. But I went out with a dress and thights and well I only had “Converse” for shoes but I feel it was looking good with the outfit.
I had make-up on trying to hide my leftover beard, lipstick, mascara, eye shadow and eye liner. My wife helped for the face part.
I went out like this. I was really stressed but it felt good after a while. I was conforted that I was going to a really small cinema that was running a lgbtqia+ movie and 2 other local allied association was there. I ran an information stand and we were selling small goodies with a member or the association.
I felt a bit stupid when people were asking my name and was giving my deadname since I haven’t decided yet for a name.
Anyway felt good to be with other queer or allies. Also people feel I look younger than I really am ( yay! ☺️)
Most likely I will probably only dress full female when going to events with the association. I wouldn’t feel safe enough otherwise.
This post was more about sharing this experience. Hope your day has been good!


Congratulations! You might consider giving your initials when asked for your name, as they’re close enough to get your attention and ungendered. Unless they are problematic.