I was doing a bit of soul searching while working with my hands yesterday and this came to mind.
Some twenty years ago, I worked away from home. My partner would often have a friend visit and they would spend time chatting, had dinner together, sometimes the friend would even spend the night over. It wasn’t uncommon for me to call in the evening to talk a bit with my partner and find out the friend was at my house.
Nothing ever happened. My partner is not bisexual and we are stricktly monogamous. But thinking is not acting and having an imagination is not a crime so at some point, and because there was such a good relationship between the two, I started wondering how would things work in a relationship between three people.
I’m basic, I admit.
Would I act on it? No. But the fantasy stuck. And as strange as this might sound, I wasn’t exactly lusting after the idea of having another sexually available partner, although that was a point of interest; what fueled the fantasy the most was how the women were so in tune with each other. It was nice to know I was away but my partner wasn’t alone.
I’m home today but sometimes the idea floats to the surface of my mind.
Ive long had a fantasy about sex with a soft, unassuming, homely, nerdy woman with absolutely massive breasts. Each at least bigger than her head. Just, cuddling, cozy, spooning, maybe a little smothering. I wanna touch and kiss and play with someone like that.
I absolutely adore my wife but she’s moderately endowed and absolutely uninterested in extramarital investigations lol. She’s aware of my fantasy and unbothered by it.
Ive had a few cute coworkers that fit the bill but I’d rather swallow glass than ACTUALLY threaten my marriage lol. So it remains a fantasy.
That sounds really fun.
Hmmm, maybe to be tied to a bed, at the complete mercy of an angry, slightly crazy woman. Someone who’s a bit obsessed with me and jelouse and angry that I hadn’t made a move or been receptive when she has.
I spoke to a someone a lot more intelligent than me about it before, and she suggested it was a reactive fantasy due to some past trauma, but I don’t think I could ever actually give up that much control, or you know, be in that helpless situation with an actual crazy person because it’s dangerous.
I don’t know, it’s oddly very, very hot to me, but I wouldn’t act on it for worry of it going to far and having my control taken away from me. I’ve had experiences close to it with safe words, and the fact that it was more for me than anything changes the, dynamics, but to be at the absolute mercy of someone else’s sexual whims… That’s my daydream I wouldn’t act on
Being branded or microchipped - cold branding is apparently a thing and fairly safe/temporary, so I might try it someday.
I have quite a few fantasies that I wouldn’t survive, but sometimes I’ve thought if I was diagnosed with something terminal, getting fucked in a guillotine would be so fun.
As a dom, I like the sound of you. However I wouldn’t want you in a guillotine! Maybe in a pillory instead?
A pillory does sound very fun - I want to learn some basic wood working to make some stocks.
Genuine question, what would you get out of being microchipped?
Branding I can understand, it’s something ive discussed with subs in the past but never made it past fantasy talk.
Institutionalized chattel slavery is really my biggest fantasy. Being microchipped would be “officially” being registered as the property of another person.
I like the idea of being somewhere in between pet/livestock/object, and a microchip works well for that.
I’ve always had an ownership kink, hence the branding, but microchipping is new to me. Something to add to the list
One of my wives is very into petplay. I have just recently been thinking about getting her a microchip. I could get a human-implantable chip from Dangerous Things, then copy the FDX-B information from a pet microchip, so I could get her ownership information registered with the manufacturer’s database. I think she would enjoy it, if she could get over the size of the implantation needle.
You made me research on cold branding and it can be very much permanent.
Prison gangbang. Probably a lot less fun irl than in my daydream
I agree on that.
I sometimes think about having sex with my 40 something year old neighbor. She’s super nice. But I would never act on it because I wouldn’t even know how to start that conversation lol!
Ask her out for a coffee. Rejection is a given but success only comes from trying.
