I think I could enjoy having sex with a stranger at an orgy or something, though I do not tend to be so forward. I generally would enjoy it more with a friend. But having sex with someone whose name I don’t know is actually an item on my short sexual bucket list.
One of my wives is very into petplay. I have just recently been thinking about getting her a microchip. I could get a human-implantable chip from Dangerous Things, then copy the FDX-B information from a pet microchip, so I could get her ownership information registered with the manufacturer’s database. I think she would enjoy it, if she could get over the size of the implantation needle.
My wives and I will fairly regularly send each other porn when we find something good. It might depict a kink or setup or act we decide to try later, or provide some additional naunce into the things that turn us on, or just be a cool thing to share.
In my few romantic ventures, I have been quite slow in progressing physically. At the three orgies my partners and I have hosted, we only invited our frienda, so I already knew and liked those I had sex with. The quickest time from meeting to doing something sexual was the one MMF threesome I have been involved in, where we met my wife’s friend while traveling and had sex after hanging out for a day. I do not remember if my wife had met him in person before, or if he was just a longtime online friend, but it was my first time meeting him.
I would like to have sex with someone whose name I don’t know.
BDSM has been part of my sex life since almost as soon as I started having sex, and my wives and I have shared various forceful fantasies with each other. But I still felt embarassed to talk about my interest in trying CNC play. Last year I was discussing a post about it on LemmyNSFW with them, and they expressed desires to try it as well. Since then, we have enjoyed dipping our toes into that pool. :)
My ideal level of marking after giving impact play or biting is light to medium bruising (yellow, with a bit of purple in the middle). Sometimes we will reach the level of bigger purple bruises. Regardless, my partners and I all appreciate the marks as sexy reminders in the following days.
I don’t always need to get tears from my partners, but if we get to that level, I am happy. Tears can come from more intense pain, or they could just need some light slapping if the emotional vibe is right.
I have a dull dagger that is my favored tool for wax removal. It is a nice aesthetic.
I don’t feel sexual jealousy towards my partners, which seems uncommon. They want a gangbang? Awesome. The more, the merrier.