• fatcat
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    14 days ago

    Is this rage bait? Why would you answer enthusiastically if you don’t want to do it or don’t have time? Just say “sorry have to work, maybe another time”.

    And if you feel you don’t get anything back, just don’t have sex with them? Are you forced to do this?

    • LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.worldOP
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      14 days ago

      If I didn’t censor all my thoughts everything that goes through my mind would be considered rage bait. This is a real situation and this is really how my mind works. Notice I have not sent that text to him because I know it is not nice. That’s why I came to all you strangers for help, how to be a normal non-rage-baity person, plz help.

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      12 days ago

      They want the validation of being wanted.

      That’s the problem. That’s why they would just say no or ignore it. They want the attention. And they want the bigger attention of ‘being offended’ by it and posting it online.