• yetiftw@lemmy.world
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    22 hours ago

    how is judaism abusive and manipulative? attending regular services brings me a sense of inner peace, aligns my actions with my beliefs, and connects me with my community

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      19 hours ago

      All religions, no exceptions. To kick things off with the lowest of low hanging fruit: your religion practices male genital mutilation.

      But the abuse, manipulations and control go all the way through from patriarchal hierarchies to an “exacting regimen requiring absolute obedience and humility; strong social pressures and rewards for cooperation;”

      Which is to say cult brainwashing techniques used by any religion from Judaism to Mormonism to Hinduism. From the Branch Davidians to the Sumerian high priesthood: humans have never ceased using the 0-days of the human mind to exploit and manipulate their fellow man.

      Does that mean religions can only do evil? Of course not. I’m glad you get a sense of connection and peace from it.

      But that connection and peace serves to perpetuate the primeval toxic hierarchy. You’ll raise your kids on it. Make sure they believe it from a young age. After all - “Train a child according to his way; even when he grows old, he will not turn away from it.” (Proverbs 22:6) You gotta get em young or they’ll never believe when they’re old.

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        16 hours ago

        You know that religious people have different beliefs and varying practices and varying relationships to institutions, right? Criticize specific institutions if you want, but don’t be an asshole.

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          I felt the critic was well thought-out and non divisive. They accurately described how religion and the religious are conjoined together at the hip.

          If you need real world examples of religion being bad for humans, crack open any paper or look at any creditable news site. Gaza, multiple cleansing in Africa, West China, cults in Japan and South Korea, U.S. politics, India … It is not hard to find the root cause.

          But you calling them an asshole was a good comeback.

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            5 hours ago

            I’m not ignorant. I just think specifically attacking someone for their religion is shitty. There are way better ways to combat abuses of power than laying it all at the feet of every single person of a certain faith. That is being an asshole in my book.

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              “I just think specifically attacking someone for their religion is shitty.”

              I think physically attacking someone because of your religion or them not buying into your religion is worse. Religions took the whole “sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me” ass backwards.

              We are watching a native group of people being cleansed from the earth because of a book. If I murdered 40,000 people because of Santa Clause, I would be the most wanted criminal. However, we praise them and say it is " God’s will."

              Fuck you and the imaginary shit you believe. Butt hurt because they pointed out a very accurate fact. Even the Abrahamic religious have a story about how everyone cooperating was against “God” in the tale of the Tower of Babel.

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                There is just nothing liberatory about wanting to get rid of people’s cultural practices. Focus your anger on the politicians and bad actors who coopt those practices.

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                  Considering religion gets rid of people’s cultural practices more than anything else, I figured you would be mad at that. Multiple cultural practices and their religions have been wiped out by the spread of Christianity and Islam. Don’t worry those two are not the only ones. All religion is convert or else. The or else may change but has the same results.

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                    3 hours ago

                    So you think atheism is convert or else? Because that’s where you’re landing here, and being pretty loose with facts on the way. You’re kinda just …doing the exact things that the worst zealous religious folks do, don’t you think? It’s silly.

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          16 hours ago

          Religious people are part of the religion but not the whole.

          As demonstrated by my previous comment: it is the religion that is the problem, not people finding camaraderie or community therein. I’m glad the previous commenter finds solace but it is important to call out that mechanism is exploited by the religion itself to propagate.

          You cannot fully separate a religion and the religious. Without the religious a religion has died.

          It would be best if all religions died: the religious that keep them alive are good people who have been misled.

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            15 hours ago

            You think you’re punching up. You’re not. You’re conflating a vast group of people and their heterodox cultural practices with your imagined idea of them and labeling all of it bad, in a performatively condescending way that pretends to be altruistic. Other peoples’ relationship to their spirituality is not cool to be shitty about. ‘Get rid of all religion’ is vaguely genocidal and also would not even make a dent in the persistent human problem of abusive and manipulative groups existing.

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              6 hours ago

              You’re religious so you’re being defensive and fighting for reasons to keep your beliefs. You don’t want to believe that you participate in a larger organization that harms humanity. That means you’re a good person.

              The religion you participate in still harms people. It doesn’t matter what religion it is.

              Good people trying to do good things participate in evil organizations that perpetrate harm.

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                5 hours ago

                I’m actually not religious. I just think a lot of these arguments sound uncomfortably close to bigotry.