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erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone to Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 4 months ago

im good at pretending

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im good at pretending

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erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone to Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 4 months ago
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  • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    I’ll so submissive that I’m willing to dom to make a partner happy

    • Squished Fly (she/they)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      Well I tried but I wasn’t good at it at all… I wish there where more dom trams girls ;-;

      • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        Trams girls🚊;3

        • Squished Fly (she/they)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          Autocorrect strikes again ;w;

      • 🦄🦄🦄@feddit.org
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        Uhhh hii :3

    • flicker@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      That’s just a service top my love.

      You’re valid and wanted, too.

      • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        But I really wish I could be a total bottom! I’m such a shy lil bean that I struggle to sprout 😖

    • Nat (she/they)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      I started that way, but I’m starting to get a little used to it and am finding more enjoyment in it than I used to. The hard part is feeling able to express what I want and do it, which I’m improving at!

    • Selyle@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      Every one of my previous relationships 😭 I just love making my partners feel happy and comfortable, but I’d love an experience that doesn’t leave me feeling greedy not being the lead 🥹

    • secret300@lemmy.sdf.org
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      Hahaha I feel that

  • Tiefling IRL@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    That’s honestly just a lesbian thing

    …ask how I know <_<

    • erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      okay then sweetheart, how do you know? id love to hear about it <3

      • Tiefling IRL@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        My partner is cis, I’m trans. We have the same problem. Not the only transbian couple we know either

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    Meanwhile me, trying to find people of any gender who are dom and poly:

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      As someone who is both poly and a dom… I’ve also noticed that there’s a massive gap in the ratio there. It’s very rare I meet anyone else who is a poly dom.

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        We often joke that our discord has a great dom shortage because I’m outnumbered basically 10:1

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          Just imagining someone running down a line of subs, arm extended with a flogger, just letting it slap each butt as they go. Yelling through a bullhorn that they’re all sluts. It’s about efficiency.

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            Gotta bulk process your subs for maximum throughput!

    • erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      the poly part isnt the issue, the dom part is :/

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        Ye. All the doms already have their hands full D:

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          How is the ratio that fucked? How many subs can the average poly dom handle?

          • erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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            for me, I max out at about 4-5

          • Maven (famous)@lemmy.zip
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            Idk but I’m willing to find out!

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    As a transfemme dom polyam slut this thread is making me feel things lmao

    • erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      please tell me these things

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        Sorry, typo, I meant “thighs” not “things”!

  • Lily [she/her, pup/pup's]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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    accurate

  • QueenMidna@lemmy.ca
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    Doesn’t apply universally . I did retain some traits when I started to transition

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