kluczyczka (she/her)

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  • Shopping can be EXHAUSTING if you’re out of your element and sometimes stores will have zero options. Keep this in mind and try either another store or another day.

    plus: get a good idea of what size you need. maybe ask a person in the shop. esp. when thrifting, there is often just one size and naturally you try it anyqay. trying on too small sizes is the biggest source of dysphoria for me while shopping. i’m glad i somewhat know what my size is now.

    do. not. wear. too. small. sizes.

    it will make you uncomfortable in one way or the other.


  • i assume you’d like to have a ‘toned down’ start? you are nervous about skirts, because thats to explicitly femme? i at least felt that way for years.

    in that case i’d suggest you find yourself a cute cardigan, you can wear ir over your regular clothes and it’s not to much of a ‘committement’. at worst it will be seen as playfull or rather just someone wanting to be comfy.

    you could then go buy a womens shirt and some pants you like. wirh these items it is the details (cut, fabric etc.) that differentiate tgem from the mens section. so that’s still not too big of a step, but i think you’ll see qnd feel it. :)





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    it. is. not. about. the. cops.

    i feel like i clarified that enough for someone who never said something remotely in defense of ice.

    antifascism that does not care about people they claim to protect (those with bodies that are deemed sub optimal, the “degenerates”, the “perverts”, the racialized …) is pointless at best.

    there are more insults, not only those that shit on whole groups of people.


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    well, and you don’t like overweight people in general?

    by all means, hate ice fucks, but if you’d call them fags for whatever reason, i’d throw stuff at you. because using fag as an insult is an attack on me. that is the structure i was talking about. insults that are based on groups are shit if you “don’t really” mean to shit on the whole group.

    choose your insults wisely. :*






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    i never affirmed anything nor was i talking body positivity. this is just about calling people out for their body. that is shitty behaviour for sure. none of us knows the life of other people, nor do we know their medical conditions and socio-economic situations. stop blaming them for stuff you don’t know about. even if you were right about all of that for any given case and wished for them to be healthier: blame does not motivate people.