good night everyone
sweet dreams 😘
special hugs for melbs and sheila
Once again, I am influenced by this delightful corner of the internet. Have picked up PHM to read, hopefully in time to watch it at the cinemas!
happy happy happy
I think you will enjoy it 🙂
this is the new fish Bluey, it’s the family fish but I seem to be the one who is looking after it
it’s really quite cute

Hi Bluey, you’re stunning!
She’s beautiful
she’s so adorable when she moves her little fins so fast .🙂
Myself and Miniest were just in an incident where the bus driver had to slam on the brakes really hard to avoid a collision. I ended up on the floor in a weird position with Miniest on top of me, with a container of cookies she made in Home Ec stopping her head from hitting the floor. Cookies ftw ✋🏼🍪🤚🏼I heard a weird gristly sound (either my neck or cookies) She saw people hit their head. Nobody bleeding or seriously injured (that I know of) but I landed on my own arm and it’s a bit sore. It’ll be bruised tomorrow I reckon. I was carrying some Cinnabon cake and a frittata and both were undamaged! 😮😃This is the second time this has happened to me on a bus, so just sayin be careful out there!
Glad to hear you’re alright and it wasn’t any worse
Thank gosh for cookies!! Glad you’re both alright!
I hope you’re both okay!
Thankyou we’re ok, just a bit stiff.
take care, glad you are ok 😘
Thankyou, it was a bit of a shock.
Oh jeez, I’m glad it was nothing serious
Oh man I wish I had the physical energy of when I was younger. I’m not even that old. But at one point in my life I had everything under control through restless energy alone.
hugs
you’ve been thru a lot that would wear out someone much younger, rest now but aim to get strong and energetic again
you’re doing great 🫂🫂🫂😘😘😘



Lovely shots!
Looks like quite the character!! Gorgeous!!
blimey, I fell asleep at my desk so went for a nap, must have needed it
It’s Gibson’s “welcome to ruling a human life” day next week.
I found the photo I took before I opened the cat carrier at my place

🥹
She was always going to rule you, what a beautiful little face!
what a cute little angel 🥰
Big news! Good Tiger have finally put out a new album. Born In A Doomsday Cult was so good, I’ve been waiting for something new from them
Happy cat day. I just ran into this random person with a cat powered back pack and they let me take a photo🙂

What a little darling!!
Your day has peaked right there.
It’s been the highlight for sure. I got so excited haha
Today is my perfect summer weather. Sun’s out, refreshing breeze, none of that awful humidity from yesterday. Too bad it’s a work day but I’m out enjoying it for a bit.
Happy birthday to my terrarium which turns 7 today!

Facebook reminded me of a post I made about the workshop I did where it was created. The original plants I put in died after a couple of years, and I replaced them with some wild leafy plants I found growing on top of the water tank. They are not the most aesthetic, but they are surviving. I thought they might not survive the move as I don’t have anywhere very bright to put it in, but it seems to be going ok so far.
That looks so cool. 🙂
I ticked off another item on my ’ meant to do this months ago’ list. I just ordered a UPS for the modem so I can continue to have internet in the case of power failure. It also means my security cameras will be able to continue recording even if someone flips off the power switch. Most of the cameras are battery operated, but that doesn’t help much if there is no internet to send the information to.
🙌
🐈⬛ 🐈⬛ 🐈⬛ A day late here, but it was Cat Day in Japan yesterday. I’ve decided we should celebrate this today. Post cat pics, please!
Alfie, needing to get involved in everything I do.

Mofusand goodies I bought myself for my birthday.

🐈⬛ 🐈⬛ 🐈⬛
Foxy

Hiiii sweetheart!! 😍
Pepper

They’re all so gorgeous!
Oh my god how beautiful!! 😍
Alfie is adorable 😍
Oreo

That white patch!
Cheeto and Sparkles (might actually be Cookie), friend’s cats.

They’re sooo cute!
Such amazing fluffy orange kitties today!! I LOVE this!! The one on the sill looks regal af!
This is Fudge. My daughter’s boyfriend’s cat.

Aww!
Haiiii Fudge, what a sweetheart!
Casey

spoiler
( I am tired of auto editors that fuck with my pictures, I’ll see if I can disable it )
Beautiful colour!
Casey is stunning!
he was such a beautiful boy , he stayed in Detroit with my bestie Tammy
I have many Casey stories 🙂
Feel free to share some, I’d love that!
Alfie is a supermodel. ❤️
He is getting a groom in a few weeks time because his fur has managed to get so matted and gross! But still, he knows how to pull a cute face.
Depressing medical stuff
Keeping it short.
Ol’ girl had some teeth pulled a week ago, I said it was a bad idea. Only eating glucose really. Refuses soup, fuck all water, no exercise, cracks it at everything, down 4kg. It took months to to slow that weight loss, and then the same again to get it back up.
Everything I’ve tried to do over the last year has just evaporated in a week.
I have no idea how the ol’ boy is expecting to do this japan trip they’re planning in like 20 days’ time.
That trip sounds like such a bad idea. How long has it been booked for? Is it sheer stubbornness or does he truly not see the state she’s in? Does she want to go on the trip? Lots of questions, none of which you need to actually answer, btw! That’s rough as.
It is a bad idea. Been booked for a year. I was hoping to use it as an excuse to get her in better shape but the punches keep coming. He sees her state and we’ve locked horns far too many times how to best go about it but I just have no say. She is very worried about the trip.
I honestly don’t know what to do from here :(
Oh thats tough… Mouth pain is hard enough, let alone with her complexity around food already.
so many hugs
what is her favourite food? even cakes are good food, they have eggs and butter and flour , try cakes , not kidding
I used to make giant apple crumbles and huge fruit bread loaves ( made with eggs ) for a friends elderly parents, it was easy to eat, healthy and very appetising
what is her favourite food?
Yea that’s the problem. I keep on trying different things (soft diet / puree only) but it’s always hit and miss.
I’m assuming you’ve tried steamed eggs? Sauce on top can be anything she likes. Even a sweet sauce. Congee was a lifesaver for me when I had most of my teeth pulled out a couple of years ago - didn’t need chewing. Can be made sweet or savoury.
I’m not sure if she’ll try it but cheese soufflé is quite soft and isn’t too bad to make if you don’t fuss about getting the height. I made it in home ec when I was sixteen.
Basically it’s cheese sauce and yolks(?) folded into stiff beaten egg white and baked with the ramekins or bowl sitting in a pan of water. It ends up like a soft moist pudding.
Edit: That said you’ve already done more than your share of catering and effort also has to come from them
Oof. I had one tooth pulled and while that pain was manageable it gave me the worst headache and made me hesitant to eat in case I would disturb the site and cause dry socket. Straws were forbidden.
NG tube is an option or even parenteral nutrition but I know it will be refused. I have a quick no temper stovetop custard recipe using real eggs but she doesn’t sound like a fan of sweets. And ol’ boy won’t cook it.
I don’t know if you can get through to him but I’m hoping she manages okay. I really am. I don’t envy the position you’re in, all the responsibilities but no say. If things go sideways it won’t be your fault.
Yea I’m pushing for NG or even just IV for hydration but I just can’t move these decisions.
you’ve been really helpful with all this melba and can’t thank you enough, sincerely.
No worries, I know how hard both nutrition and carer duties can be
maybe he just isn’t saying anything
trying to keep it positive for her ( and himself )
in fact, is she looking forward to it? That might be an incentive for her to behave better
I don’t believe as a doctor he doesn’t see what is happening
Yep that’s exactly right. He is trying to stay positive and he knows what’s happening so giving him that.
She’s not looking forward to it. I was just hoping to get her more confident (w/ walking, eating etc.) but this is a big spanner and I’m out of things to do in that amount of time.













