• CrayonRosary@lemmy.worldOP
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      2
      ·
      2 hours ago

      Sure, but did you at least add context about why you’re messaging them? Like some comment or post they made that you liked and you wanted to talk about similar stuff?

      Because that would be kind of normal. That’s what private messages are for. But this one is just bait.

      • MutilationWave@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        2 hours ago

        Yeah just a question or a word of encouragement or a recommendation so it didn’t seem like I was advertising. I like most things to be publicly posted but not everything. If Lemmy gets a bunch of bot spam PMs, legit ones will be less likely to get a response.

        • CrayonRosary@lemmy.worldOP
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          2
          ·
          2 hours ago

          I imagine speed limits will be put on DMs at some point in the future. There’s no reason to have it wide open so you can firehose multiple people with the same message.

          Like, if you’re sending a message to someone and they reply back, you can immediately reply back, back-and-forth, as fast as you want. Other than that, you should only be able to send a message once every five or ten minutes.

  • spujb@lemmy.cafe
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    8
    ·
    7 hours ago

    okay lol i feel less bad for reporting this user now that i know it was widespread

  • chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    3
    ·
    5 hours ago

    Thanks for the heads up! I never PM anyone on social media platforms unless I’ve met them in real life and they expressed actual openness to talking to me.

  • RBWells@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    18
    ·
    9 hours ago

    Got 4 copies of it, I don’t even know how to send a message to “all” here, didn’t think it was possible.

      • threshold_dweller@lemmy.today
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        edit-2
        4 hours ago

        Neither of the apps I use lets me do anything beyond read the message and mark it as read. Is there a profile setting to disable that shit? I have to log into my fucking desktop just to delete the stupid phishing message.

  • lime!@feddit.nu
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    3
    ·
    6 hours ago

    I thought maybe it vas a weird quirk of friendica, but yeah this seems more focused

  • ZeroCool@slrpnk.net
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    52
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    13 hours ago

    I really wish we could disable PMs from anyone but admins or mods of comms we subscribe to, like you can on reddit. There will never be a day when I want to receive a PM from anyone on Lemmy. It’s nothing personal, there’s lots of cool people here, but I’m not interested in pen pals.

  • gandalf_der_12te
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    5
    arrow-down
    2
    ·
    7 hours ago

    Yeah this was the first thing that i saw in the morning and it was so surreal. I literally woke up, grabbed my smartphone, went to lemmy inbox, and saw this message three times in a row. Clicked through all of them, then fell back to sleep, only to wake up an hour ago and now i see this meme. I guess i wasn’t dreaming this up after all.

  • pyre@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    3
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    7 hours ago

    who is the woman in the picture? I saw a couple stills randomly posted in comments too.