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        In this case the narrative is “rich black girl (implicit: she received help and/or votes for people who want to help others) refuses to help her own family! (so why should we give our tax money when they don’t even want to help their own?!)”

        Disgusting right wing manipulation as usual.

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      It’s the daily mail. Anyone successful with a shade of skin darker than lightly-toasted white bread sends them scrambling to their keyboards in a race to see who can get their subscribers rage-reading the quickest.

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      There’s no conflict here. Hand outs are when the government gives money to undeserving people. Giving money to people and organizations of your choice is encouraged and laudable. Which sounds sensible on the surface.

      And this is why governments have to provide the social safety net, no one is excluded and the rules aren’t bendy.

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      The readers can use this story to justify opposition to social welfare policy.

      The implication is

      If mega-millionaire Simon Biles won’t stoop to help her own mother, why should my tax dollars cover the difference?

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        I suppose it depends on their overall attitude. For me that’s a perfect example of why we should support assistance for the needy. If someone with millions of dollars won’t even help their own family, then we obviously can’t rely upon people’s own generosity, and the need exists regardless.

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          Right, Simone should have to help people regardless, because she should pay a lot of taxes that go to that because she’s wealthy. She shouldn’t get to pick and choose who her money helps, that should apply to everyone

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    Also feeds into the boomer narrative that their children exist to support them when they get old

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        Lol uhhhh you are in for a rude awakening when you get old. (I’m implying your kids are 100% going to abandon you to die alone because only a asshole would comment something so stupid.)

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        They can support you when you’re older, but you’re not entitled to that. It’s their choice.

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            Not really, my dad’s a jackass and I don’t owe him anything.
            I understand why some people support their aging parents, I also can understand when they don’t.
            Like most things, it’s a matter of consent.

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              That’s totally fair and you’re right. My mistake is assuming people are good parents and that their children love them.

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                No worries, it’s not easy to imagine that kind of thing if you have a good relationship with your parents.

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                This is an article about an Olympian whose parents, both birth parents, failed her and her sister. They focused on drugs/alcohol instead of being a parent.

                I wouldn’t want anything to do with her mom either. Her grandparents were her caregivers growing up. They should get love from her. They raised her.

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    I’ve talked on the verse about having a malignant narcissist for a mother and how our society is so busy worshipping mothers, that it doesn’t stop to think some of us haven’t got one. Or had one who was awful.

    Pay attention around Mother’s Day. All the ads, all the products, all the social media about how she gave you everything, how she’s a hero, how she’s done everything and would do anything for you.

    Writers trying to capitalize on what some people don’t have is so evil. I hope tat Simone never sees this.

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      it’s the worst shit. even now, well into adulthood, when I’m injured or something, I’m still supposed to rely on my mom. I don’t have one of those.

      I tried explaining it to a doctor once. I showed him some of the scars. just in one ear and out the other.

      I feel like the reliance on ‘family’ is a way to dismantle any solidarity or any hint of a society, any kind of broad social support. I feel like it’s a whole thing.

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          like i said; well into adulthood. my twenties are firmly behind me. I think the time parts are going to do what they’re going to do. the biggest pain in my ass now is places where ‘society’ is supposed to just be a thing that flat out does not exist for me.

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      I can tell your mother was a terrible role model, because she raised you to insult abusers by accusing them of mental illness instead of insulting their evil actions. A good parent would have taught you how to insult bad people properly.

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          I just realized that asshole thought I used “malignant narcissist” as an insult instead of it being her diagnosis.

          Lmao even. My insult vocabulary is as colorful as that of a sailor. I save it for driving.

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    Here is a fun narrative I imagine when I see stuff like this.

    Some poor asshole who is struggling to pay off student loans and thus has no luxury in job opportunities, sadly accepts a job as a rag company like this. Their boss, who lives in similar conditions sadly tells them that they need to write a hit piece of Simone for “corporate overlords demand a blood sacrifice” both the writer and manager hate themselves in this interaction. Then the writer finds the article from his own company about Simone Biles parents abandoning her and feels sad he has to shit on someone who life has already shit on enough. Finishes the article, goes home, gets the alert on his phone its published, logs onto his burner account to post the context on the article he himself wrote just so he can have any level of control over his life.

    Sort of like a Rube Goldberg machine of this guy

    this guy

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    These are the people who kept pushing stories about the “Parasitic poor” with “Entire families living of Social Security” using as example the 3 families in the whole of Britain (so a handful of people out of 67 million people) were that was actually the case and portraying it as if that was common amongst poor people.

    Unsurprisingly the newspaper is owned by the 4th Viscound of Rottermere, a billionaire who inherited it and last time I checked used the Non-Domiciled legislation in the UK (which is a quite unique piece of legislation in the World that lets somebody live there but claimed to be Domiciled elsewehere for tax purposes) to pay pretty much no taxes.

    Fascism in the UK is not the loud goose stepping brown shirts kind, it’s extremelly wealthy people with posh education from every expensive Private Schools, often with inherited titles, using the Press to spread deceitful Propaganda about out-groups such as the poor and immigrants.

    (The tendency amongst the British upper class to love core elements of Fascism, especially the idea that some people are born inherently superior to others, is pretty old - there’s even a picture o the late Queen Elizabeth, back when she was a girl, being taught how to do a Nazi salute by her uncle who was the King at the time).

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    Since when are Birkenstocks something that people flaunt as a symbol of wealth? There are just solid, well made shoes. I have a pair that are 6 years old and it was cheaper for me to buy them than to replace a shitty knockoff every year.

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    ‘Of course I would accept her help,’ Shanon told DailyMail in an exclusive interview. ‘She hasn’t [offered] it so far. I’m here. I’m okay.’

    She said: ‘I would like to make amends with Simone personally – I’m just waiting for her and Adria. I speak to Adria more than I speak to Simone. I would just ask her to forgive me. Can we move forward? Don’t judge me on my past. Let’s move forward.’

    impressively tone deaf. doing a tabloid interview and saying “don’t judge me on my past” after your last conversations didn’t work is like the pushiest and least remorseful thing you could do

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    i was also going to ask if her mom even wanted any of that money lmao.

    A lot of older people don’t give a shit, they’re already retired, and if not, they aren’t likely doing it for the money anyway.

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      Probably. The mom was struggling with drugs and alcohol, which is why Simone’s Grandparents adopted her and her sister. The sister has spoken to the mom, but Simone doesn’t want to. I don’t blame her.

      My point is, I’m pretty sure she’s not just a cashier for the fun of it. I don’t think she’s close to being homeless, because the mom has the sisters number.